Maybe you should do what she does to you......... you are pressuring me. And when she doesn't say anything for a few days and finally does, say something like, but you are still putting pressure on me, I know in the back of your mind you are pressuring me to cut up those branches, kinda like you say I do you with the sex issue. I know that isn't very good PM tactics nor is it the right thing to do, but don't ya just wanna make a point sometimes?