yeah, I have admitted to myself that it is a problem and am gathering the required cojones to start addressing it. (see my reply in hairdog's b-day thread) It is damn hard to keep a life-long habit that has sabotaged most of my relationships in the past, and led me to fall for a specific kind of person.
At least, Odysseus had crewmen. I am currrently sailing a one-seater here. The trick is to regain some of one's self, and not lose any more than already done.
Speaking of location, I used to live in your neck of the woods a few years ago. DFW area.
thanks.
The differentiation song:
All I want to do
Is be more like me
And be less like you
Linkin Park