NO I have not told her that I had a time limit. I don't want to give her an ultimatum: you better put out by the new year, or I'm out of here! I told her that I was unhappy, showed her the books I had bought, recommended the SSM as a good read (she didn't read it) I just feel that I have been trying hard, that I am running out of ideas - and she is entirely fixated on the physical. So if things don't change by the end of the year (start moving in the rght direction) I will insist that we see a counselor and then let her know that we are headed for a divorce. I am really scared about the whole thing and trying to not think about it but I can't continue to live like that either. Thanks for the welcome - and i try to not be a Homer. D'OH - the other one. =)
The differentiation song:
All I want to do
Is be more like me
And be less like you
Linkin Park
