Sage, he said the idea of never smoking again is just too much for him.
I think you are right on the nose with that.
As for me going the other route and saying, "I realize you are never going to quit." Sage, I'll continue to consider it...but I'm not sure I can do it.
Pam, You make some good points about the IM. If he brings it up again, I'll ask him to wait until we get home.
As for is this a deal breaker for me.
In the past I would have said no.
But now, feeling so miserably and having him add to it...I'm leaning towards yes.
I know that my extreme sensitivity to smell is supposed to get better by the time I'm in my 2nd trimester.
I'm sure my not feeling well, fatigue and all the rest are probably contributing to my feelings of depression and hopelessness.
Perhaps I just need to stay away from him for the next few days, get to feeling better, get plenty of sleep and take good care of myself...and then re-evaluate how I'm feeling.
