Nop: At first I read the paragraph about keeping secrets about my ex and I thought, ouch, I need to work on the honesty thing with my W. But then I thought, what secret? That she sent me an email? That's no biggie. That she would marry me if I dumped W? No big surprise there...I am quite a find, of course. She is not offering her bed to me. She is offering endless torture if I choose to divorce and move in with her subsequent to divorce.
This seems like a damned if I do damned if I don't proposition. At least if I don't tell W about it, and she finds out later, I can claim that I was trying to save her from the stress of knowing about ex wife's proposition, and say honestly that I would never take her up on it.
