Hiya HD...
Your X making that comment made me feel bad for W. She has had to make the adjustment from the fantasy romantic internet relationship to living in a new town, new job, 3 stepkids, adopting and becoming a mom herself...but the hardest, by far, IMO, is dealing with a crazy X who still wants you ( not that she is crazy for that...you know what I mean). I think that would tip me over the edge.
J