Actually, Corri, for millions of marriages, it really is (that simple) -- including our OWN marriages, awhile back.

But you're right, the choice is ours, and we have to decide where our own integrity line is drawn, and what we're willing to put up with and how hard we're willing to fight.

I didn't say it was EASY, I just think it's more SIMPLE than all of that gobbledigook. But that's just me -- actual milage may vary.

Choc.