He doesn't. He can stay exactly as he is. That's his choice.
Quote: Why CAN'T it be as simple as "Baby, I love you, I adore you and would do anything in the WORLD for you; shut up and KISS me, make love to me, and please be the woman I married in the first place!"?
I don't know.
Quote: Choc., who still really DOES think it oughta be that simple
Yeah. I'd be great if it were. But it isn't. So now what? Above is a wish. A non-thing. Your reality is different. So now what?