heapmom said: ------------------- I speak fluently now (I teach in Finnish all day!), and H still refuses to speak Finnish with me, since I 'speak so poorly'. He has been known to correct my English as well -------------------
Next time he does this, call his behavior in a nice way.
Hubby: "Don't slur your R's!" heapmom: "Please don't correct me that way again. It was okay when I was first learning your language, now it is simply annoying."
Be firm, don't be angry.
If he speaks to you in english, answer him in Finnish.
He has to learn what your boundaries are. Since you are the only one that knows what they are, it is up to you to teach them to him.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
