I think my major problem here is I am not sure I want to spend the rest of my life fighting this. There is a very small amount of caring about the situation, but believe me its not like most of you who really long to have an emotional and physical relationship with your spouses. Most of what I read here seems to be small amounts of happiness that doesn't last long, then it starts all over again with the one desiring the EC fighting another battle to regain that. I just don't know if I have that kind of fight in me. I'm tired of fighting it. I know that marriage is work, hard work. Seems to me alot of spouses don't want to do the work. Maybe thats what I should tell him, that I'm so very tired of doing the work with him only doing work once a month. Anyway I know this is something I have to decide for myself, nobody can tell me what to do or think. I just really needed to vent some this morning. Thanks Annette
