I didn't initiate a conversation about it this past weekend because I have decided if he can't love me the way I want, then I don't want it.
Hi Annette, My feeling is that you need to speak up. Your H is a distancer and likes the status quo...meanwhile you are miserable. Trust me, he knows his comments are annoying you and making you move away---exactly what he wants! I think you have to get back into the "fight" in all of this...I don't mean hitting him over the head with everything, but choosing an area and addressing it with him in a no-nonsense style. I know you have had moments of success...reread those posts, and get back in the game! All my best, Journey
