You cannot imagine how incredible reading this post is. You have been able to really grow from this experience in such a short amount of time that I can only imagine what lies in store for you with a commitment to this process on a long term basis.
Now that you have some great news to report and success to build upon, have you read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman? I think it would be helpful in figuring out what your H's LL is so you can continue to keep speaking it so he understands how much you love him.
I look forward to coming back here to read your progress.
Awesome!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."