Oh, and as for how long it took H to get over his ex’ new BF .... not long. I think when he first heard about him H was genuinely insulted that she’d consider dating anyone else after having been with him….or something to that effect. Now, they are very cordial and can talk computers for hours. I imagine it’ll be another adjustment if they get married and he moves in, becoming official “stepfather” to H’s kids, but I don’t foresee any major difficulties.

Mr. W will be all right, trust me. And Mr E’s a lucky fella.

Pen