Your post on your own thread made my day today. I think it's a wonderful example of how time and effort can heal. I can just imagine how she might have felt when you whispered those words in her ear. Just maybe they will be the catalyst for her to really consider having you as a best friend... for now.
Yes, I think it's time for honesty and sharing. But I will put this caveat in motion: I think it would be wise if you would let her lead. Offer candor when she gives you an opportunity to clear up issues that are bothering her. Anything more is pursuit, and we want to see how this bridge gap can be closed, right?
It will be a great means of employing validation and support and all the DB principles you have learned thus far. Who knows where that will lead you?
Yes, I DO think she cares... but for your own sake, I would recommend just living in the moment and not trying to interpret anything she says with any meanings you might be wanting to apply. Let her tell you more. You just concentrate on being a friend. Something tells me you will get an A on that score.
Just live in the NOW, friend. Everything will take care of itself in its own due time. Keep up the amazing work. And I'll tell the vacationing Triple J to come visit you when he returns to his cyber world...
Big hugs, special friend.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
