I have a fine line to walk in my M... the line between "pushing too hard" and "sitting back and waiting." I suppose we all have this challenge. Having a spouse who is hesitant, unwilling to deal with issues, makes it more difficult.
I have this plan in my head for LM this month - every Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday/Sunday (one day of those 2). That's 3 times a week, which is much more than 3 times a month that I had before. The last LM session was lackluster, but it wasn't a mercy f*ck by my W. I'm hoping that she never feels that she needs to "do that." Instead, I hope she says something like, "I'm too tired today. Why don't you just play with yourself?"
I've been reading PM more often now. The "Hugging Until Relaxed" seems like a challenge, considering I can't see my W wanting to hug for 10+ minutes anytime soon. The eyes open sex seems interesting. I think I already keep my eyes open a fair amount of time, but I suppose I'll be more aware of it now.
