Quote: Your wife has a ton of hurts right now. So what can you do?
Shoot her and put me out of her misery?
Quote: When she does ask a question, answer it in as honest a way as possible. Don't hold back.
And when, per se, should I expect her to start asking questions? Because, NOP, it's been over 2 years since she found out about the A, and she hasn't asked any questions in the past (at least) 6 months. The M could fall asleep waiting for these supposed questions to be asked... and it's already fairly sleepy. In fact, the M is blah underneath the facade that we both put on for other people. Still, my W refuses to admit that there are problems. When I bring up a marriage counselor, she says things like, "I didn't know that we had such problems." So who is she fooling?? Certainly not me. She's only fooling herself, trying to convince herself that things are fine.
Oh well, I'm not going anywhere. I guess I can just keep hanging and waiting for some lightbulb or other to turn on in her head. Maybe I should go back on Lexapro so I can't cry.
