I hear you, wildebube. I like Corri and respect her opinion, but lately it just seems like she's pissed off at us and impatient.
I'm a pretty intelligent guy, but some of the time I'm a bit dense...especially when it comes to having insight to my own actions/motivations. I don't have a lot of free time to meditate and contemplate why I am the way I am. If I did that, I'd blow off picking up DD3, or be late to the office, or forget DS13 at school, etc.
So I'm in a SSM. I come here to vent. I sometimes offer advice to other people. I take advice some of the time. I enjoy my imaginary friends here. I enjoy being with my wife most of the time, although sometimes we have a very bumpy road for a week. Coming here and bitching is how I cope. So let me bitch.
When and if I decide that my SSM is intolerable, I will leave, but only after I have tried every other solution. I'm trying solutions right now.