Yes, sometimes Corri is right. But sometimes Corri also has an unrealistic view.
It's easy to say, "grow some balls", or, "grow up", or, "show some respect by participating", but those are worthless generalities. Corri berates me for stating my desires as though I think only of myself, then turns around and tells me to stand up for myself. Huh?
You say
Quote: show our W some respect by participating 50-50 in the M from a 100% honest point-of-view (rather than our warped "my way must win" POV).
Pray tell how you do this when one partner's view is "I want sex" and the other's is "I don't".