I also am glad to hear that this was a mutual decision and the W would hold nothing against you for her taking this route.
I had only brought it up because I know in my R that it was expected that I would take care of it and I had no problem doing it. She had the children, I could take care of this.
As far as the frequency issue... I sure was hoping that would be the case! But I guess in my situation, if it had been the case, I wouldn't be here validating that there are many others out there that have the same issues in their M as I do. :-(
