Hey Chris,

I've been following these boards for a while and will soon make my own thread to journal my situation...

I am curious though in this solution.

What was wrong with you getting a V ???

I know in my M, my wife pretty much felt that was my responsibility and after her having three kids, I totally agree.

Could your wife harbor any resentment over the fact that you are not doing that and this has become her responsibility too?

just a thought...