W is anxious about her Essure procedure today, so we both didn't sleep well last night. She was tossing and turning. I should have taken TylenolPM.
Essure is permanent birth control (see Essure's web pages), and in 3+ months, she won't "need" BC pills anymore. I hope that next year will be better for frequency of LM because of this. The BC pills also make her feel "blah" and so, they have to go.
Now, I thought maybe my W would "attack" me for sex before this procedure (it's unlikely that she'll feel like LM for a week after... discomfort and all that). Nope. She's the type that is consumed by anxiety and nervousness, so much so that everything else is unthinkable. LM is not for soothing her anxiety... it's reserved for those times when there's "nothing going on" that she needs to worry about. This is one of the reasons why we have frequency problems (with 2 kids and 2 jobs and older parents, sh*t happens).