Speaking up - here we go

[SolidMechanic]

I know. This is why I still have a problem. How much of my sexual personal identity can I sacrifice in order to maintain my sense of myself as a loving, giving person. In the past, my answer was "just about all of it". I'm just trying to figure out what my new answer might be.

You don't have to decide right away. You can allow your current situation to reach equilibrium, just to see how it feels. I think it's important when we have made gains to spend some time enjoying them, instead of constantly placing our Ms under stress.

It's too bad your H has been traveling so much lately .

SM