Speaking up - here we go

[MJontheMend]

The book makes you dissect your desire and save the piece that's about emotional connection with your partner.

But what about the piece of my desire that isn't about soothing anxiety or seeking validation or even emotional connection to my partner? What about the piece of desire that is part of my identity and integrity and has made me HD since I was 15. I don't think pure physical hornyness alone encompasses it and I don't think I can give it up.