Quote: But there's more. There's always more, and its never just about sex. This is what I am coming to realize. I think you are even one step ahead, because your H has begun to get it.
Your H will begin to get it as soon as he understands that your resolve is strong. Things will get worse before they get better. You just need to hold on to your resolve in the face of such things as turned off cell phones and the fact that your H of 16 years has suddenly stopped calling you Jenny and started to address you as Jennifer because he can't believe that the HD PITA he now lives with is the same nice wimpy woman he knew.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver