It was a departure for me. Normally I would have just ignored it, put it in the dishwasher myself and left it at that, just cause I know what brining it up will cause. I'm tired of the fact that I either do everything, or he makes a big production out of doing it 'his' way. That's why I called it this time, and it wasn't the old me loosing my cool and just storming off at all.

If I had just said, 'I don't care about the cup let's talk about our sex life', H would have most likely just laughed it off.

He did make a big production of avoiding me this morning, and being a martyr about making his own breakfast while I was getting the girls ready for school. I was just pleasant.