Quote: You need to "throw yourself at your H" and ML already... no matter what his excuses are, don't accept them. Break the ice. Attack him. Get him alone and get him "in the mood" somehow. Show him that you want to reconnect physically. Do it before he goes back to work, or do it during his first week back to work.
If he lacks enthusiasm, just "do" him instead. Just do it. See how it goes.
Chris, if the roles were reversed, this would probably be called "marital rape." I know my wife would consider it so. I wonder how Mr. Heap would consider it? Of course, I have a weight/strength advantage over W, but doubt that Heapmom has the same advantage over her H.