I understand. I agree. My mileage is actually very close to yours.
What I am getting at is this. You and I have both made considerable progress. Now that we understand what caused the lack of sex in our respective marriages, does it matter what it was? In other words, as long as we can prevent it from happening in the future, why dwell on it? Maybe I am totally off track here, maybe I am still in denial, but I want to move forward.
Sorry, heapmom, for this terrible hijack of your thread!
