Mojo wrote: I hope you aren't implying that you are LD about hugs. Maybe you've just had too many hugs that didn't lead to anything good. Now you are afraid if you open up a can of hug the snakes will pop out and there won't be any peanuts.
Wow. I think that was my lamest analogy yet. -------------------------
I'm definitely not LD about hugs, in a sexually active R, at least. I guess I'm a little gun shy about them, as you surmise, however.
My personal experience is that hugs were presented as the only thing necessary. "Hugs" meaning non-sexual touching and affection. The SSM definitely put me off to a lot of what I would otherwise enjoy.
As far as your weak analogy goes, it was all those *** in my previous post that threw you off. (Either that or the guy's pics in SD's post. )
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