Quote: You meant "hug" to be a representative word, didn't you?
Mike - whose M ideal is "Whenever either of us feels sad, let's f***. Whenever we feel angry, let's f***. Whenever we disagree, let's f***. Whenever we feel happy, let's f***. And when we're not sure how we feel, let's f***."
In my ideal marriage hugs and f*cks would both be in plentiful supply. I hope you aren't implying that you are LD about hugs. Maybe you've just had too many hugs that didn't lead to anything good. Now you are afraid if you open up a can of hug the snakes will pop out and there won't be any peanuts.
Wow. I think that was my lamest analogy yet.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver