Quote: I would never have believed a week ago that we could have had this kind of convo, let alone that it would have gone this well, without H huffing off and me getting angry. So, I'll pat myself on the back
You deserve a pat on the back, because you were courageous and "held on to yourself". If I can make one suggestion, I would tell you to not concern yourself right now with your H's reaction to your statements. He has to deal with his reactions himself. In Schnarch-Speak, you need to put him in the crucible, but he needs to find his way out.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
