Hey DBR...I remember you and your sitch well. Happy to hear that you guys are working some things out, but bummed to hear that the SSM is still persisting. I suppose I'd reluctantly suggest that patience and compassion without pressure will work for you. I'm reluctant because patience has not served me well in my situation. Rather, it merely acts as a delay. I pretty much have to keep on pressuring W to get her to move along, and to make her realize I'm not giving up. However, YMMV.
