Quote: This is irrational gibberish. Perhaps the Son of Sam was a nice guy relative to Hitler, but that doesn't mean that he was a nice guy. "Normal" isn't an adjective that is applied subjectively. It has a clear cut meaning. Perhaps there is some margin of error in determining what a normal sex drive for an adult woman might be, but that doesn't mean that wanting sex twice a year is anywhere near the peak of the normal curve. Your wife is way down in the valley, multiple standard deviations away from the norm. I don't see what any one of us on this board gains by buying into postmodern relativism when it comes to our sex lives, except perhaps the comforting feeling that we are too "nice" to call a spade a spade.
I am assuming you did a chi squared fit test on the sexual desire distribution curve to see that it did, in fact, fit a binomial distribution.
No?
Maybe sex drive is a binodal distribution. There are lots of people who want it every day, but there are also lots of people who want it less than once a month. If you perform an arithmetic mean, you will get an average sex drive of 2x/wk.
I am under the impression that their are quite a few HD/LD couples in the world. HD people are normal. LD people are normal too.
Casting low desire as a pathology is another trap, IMHO. It allows the LD spouse to claim physiological disability, and removes choice as a consideration.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
