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If you want sex one evening and she doesn't want sex, why would she care if you went out to a bar and got it from someone else?




Because sex is an expression of our marriage. Having sex is not like ordering a pizza, and having sex with someone who is not my wife is not like playing the flute with someone who is not my wife because she didn't feel like playing that night.

Seriously, do you mean to imply that on any given evening, if your spouse doesn't want to have sex with you, you should just go out and get some?

Jonathan


HD Male, married 20 years, 3 daughters