I agree with barney. We're not here just because we're HD - in fact, some of aren't HD. We're here because we're "fixers". If my W was HD and I was LD, you can bet your boots that, were I aware it was a problem for her, I would do my dead level best to fix it. Look at the hoops we have already jumped through trying to get our spouses to ML. We have clearly shown that we're willing to sacrifice and work on problems in our M.
