I have been reading the posts on this board for some time and I am trying to figure out if a HD spouse can really love a ND Spouse - particularly a ND spouse that firmly believes that it is perfectly acceptable to be ND. Where the HD spouse should merely accept the LD for what they are - ie leave them alone physically and carry on with a normal loving, caring and fully sharing relationship in every other way. I have been given this strong message from my ND spouse and she is totally resentful that I would want her to be anything other than what she is - just accept and be happy. Is this really possible and if so how do you get to that happy place?
