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You know I don't notice it as much when I am not down, but at these times I feel less of a person because David divorced me. Maybe like there is something wrong with me that he chose to have an affair and my friend chose to have an affair with my H and my other close friend chose to side with the affair and the divorce. Sometimes it seems such an awful tangle and almost unreal in a way.



{{{PAM}}}

I'm sorry you're hurting.

Let me ask you this...what would your response be if one of your friends on the BB posted what you posted above? How would you counter (but in a validating way ) our claims that we were somehow flawed because our Ses cheater and possibly left?

I'm serious, friend. How would you answer?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.