David called and we talked. He said I was trying to fight. I said, no I am very much trying to not fight but to explain.

I said I think from the level of frustration I sense on your end I am not making myself clear and would also guess that I am not understanding you either.

So we didn't get ourselves explained, but we agreed that we were neither one understanding the other one. We did do our usual tortuous conversation of not understanding the other one first but at least ending this way is an improvement for us and I thanked him for calling.

We discussed the insurance. We neither one know too much about home owners insurance. I asked him some questions I had and he said he wasn't real sure either but that he would talk to the insurance man and ask some questions.

We also discussed the house refinancing info I had gotten and he plans to call that lady and speak with her as well on the closing costs going on the back end. I said I really didn't understand what that meant. He wasn't sure either.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"