Hmmm...guess Deb won't want to come in from Kansas.
Cathy at one time sounded interested.
Did you ever read the articles by Hearts Blessings on the MLC? I never read but a bit of them but I think they do the come out then run back thing.
On the other hand it can't hurt for him to see you have a life rather he chooses to be in it or not.
I understand on the kids. That has to really be hard on them.
Totite is great on ideas for jobs maybe we need to ask her for suggestions for you, utilizing your volunteer skills and see if something pays better than the social services do.
If you go to attorney, just don't let them push you into anything. Their job is to get you divorced and that is what their goal is going to be. I think some of them are better than others about wanting people to have a chance to put it together if possible.
Not saying don't go, but I did do a lot of reading before going to an attorney and mine wasn't a good divorce A but if she were I would probably have been divorced a lot sooner and with more ill will between CHL and I.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
That has to really be hard on them. 