Sorry I missed wishing you a happy day yesterday, so HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!
I have still been reading your sitch but I really don't have any advice to offer, only my support. I haven't walked in your shoes before of dealing with the aftermath of a D. I guess you just get up and do it one day at a time, huh?
I thought about you the other day. H was here and the dogs would not even come to him at all, avoided him like the plague. I know it hurt his feelings though.
