So...got yourself tightly latched to the rollercoaster, no? How about loosening that tie a bit as you've been doing SO WELL and focus on YOU, YOU, YOU not the Weenie as I will now have to refer to him (thanks Ellie!).
How's the new house? Hey, when are you moving?
I don't know if you and weenie will end up friends but I DO KNOW that if you do or you don't it will be because YOU decide that having him as a friend (or NOT) enhances (or detracts from) your life. It is up to YOU and let me assure you that you don't have to decide NOW.
Get busy getting busy, Miss.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.