I guess that is what I don't understand. He wasn't willing to work on stuff to stay married. So why would he want to work on anything to stay friends?

Now he has his divorce and he is free, he says he hasn't forgiven me, so I just don't see where he makes sense here.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"