So CN, what words of wisdom then do you have for us HD's? I've been following your thread, but still don't have any clear insight as to what made *YOU* decide to start experimenting. How did you get from where my W is now (the stomach in knots over the thought of sex) to wanting to learn about your sexuality? I don't think my LDW will experiment of her own accord (she claims to have never even MB'd and I believe her), and if pressure makes it worse, then what?