Quote: As AtlDave said, that's a pretty good rationalization. Reality-check: why would you be more afraid of being confronted by your wife in front of a counselor than in your home?
My W, confront me? Ha... I think she's scared to do that now. What is that old adage: don't ask the questions if you don't really want the answers?
I want to work out the issues... even if that's more painful in the beginning than either of us wants it to be. It seems that I get nowhere fast when I bring things up at home. In the "neutral third party" location of a C office, at least we'd have to talk for 45 minutes. We'd also have scheduled weekly/monthly sessions to force us to deal with things. Both my W and I are master avoiders of conflict, ya see.
