Quote: She looked at our "roles" and how we have defined one another, and ourselves within those. She attributed my W's lack of desire stemming from the fact that I defined my role as a "money-maker-father" which sleeping with was "incestuous". And then she did the same thing with my W. She even mentioned a "whore-like" relationship to me but it came and went so fast, that I didn't understand it.
She probably meant that since your wife doesn't work and therefore depends on you for monetary support, your wife kind of sees you as her employer. So your wife might be interpreting your stand on the matter as "F*ck me or you're fired.". Therefore she feels like a whore if she has sex with you in order to avoid being fired and suffer a financial loss.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
