I would be there myself if I thought I could afford it right now. But at about $100/hour, it might be pretty darned expensive. The positives I think that can come out of this is to get a nutral third party involved. Us guys can tell them over and over about the need for sex, and they won't HEAR us. But to have someone else acknowledge that this can be important might do a lot to get them to thinking about it. It might also open up the discussions a little better.