Wow, Denise...double good wishes. Thanks for them. Unfortunately, tonight, I am sleeping downstairs on the couch. W is pissed at me because I refuse to engage in an argument while she is being irrational. She wants to "get away" from my ex W and my "nutjob" kids. I took offense at that and hung up on her. Then she apologizes for calling them nutjobs but continues to threaten to leave me. (the basis of the argument is unimportant, but it was that she said something to DS13 which ended up being told to ex-W, who called me) Anyhoo...so when she says that she's got to get out of here, I'm saying, "okay, well, you gotta do what you gotta do." Usually, I'm all "oh no baby, we can work this out....etc." Today, I'd had enough. Tired of the threats, tired of playing the game her way.
So I came downstairs, carrying my pillow, and she said, "I would appreciate it if you would sleep downstairs." I just looked at her, "Why do you think I am carrying my pillow down there? I have no desire to sleep next to you tonight, either."
Ain't marriage grand?
Hairdog - dog tired at 12:10am, but still had to visit the board.
