Thanks for the questions...it will be difficult to ask her any of these, as she usually avoids talking about the specifics and mechanics of sex (no offense, Solidmechanic). It's worth a shot, though.
As for the b 'n' b, it was really nice. The rooms were pretty small, but the house was beautiful. Go see it at: this web page. The breakfasts were fantastic! I have also stayed here and it was also great.
Unfortunately, I can't afford to go to b&bs or hotels every time I want to ML with my W. Just need to convince her that it's okay to do this in our bedroom at home.