It all seems so simple. Here is the way it works. Your love language is phsical touch/sex. She must show most of her love via this love language. Her love language is qaulity time, and this is how you should show it to her. Now you can tell her this until you are blue in the face, and it just does not sink in. Now if us clueless guys can figure this out, why can not a women(the relationship experts) figure this out. It is apparent that your wife(like mine) looks DOWN upon people that need sex to get emotional connection. When she refers to "It was just sex", it is very apparent that she does not have a freakin clue as to how relationships work.
Have you sat down and asked her if she wants to build an emotional connection? Have you explained that your emotional connection mus come through physical touch? Have you explained to her that if she chooses to not connect with you in this way, that you will interpret this as to the level of commitment she has to you?
Anybody else got a good way of explaining to a LD woman how this emotional connection gets built via sex. It seems that a lot of LD women just can not understand how this works, no matter how you explain it to them. If a women says "It was only sex" that they don't have a freakin clue as to how relationships work.
