I am so glad your bnb trip worked out. Some LDs just need relaxing surroundings and no stresses to be able to respond.
In my case, romantic getaways present more pressure to become aroused which in turn causes arousal to become more elusive. It's as if arousal is a little imp that likes to play more hide than seek. I am hoping that reading and learning here will allow me to be able to catch that imp whenever I want to.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
