Quote: Why don't you say this to her "I know that sex doesn't increase your EC to me, but since you know that having sex does increase my EC to you, I wonder why you don't want to please me more often. Wouldn't it make you feel good to give me the sex as a gift of love?"
HD's spouse could retort "You know that I find the idea of having sex distasteful. If you really loved me, than you would quit badgering me to do sonething that I don't want to do."
Is this not a legitimate response? Maybe a better question for HD to pose is "You know that I have trouble getting close to you when we don't make love. Do you really want to be close to me? Because, you know, it's hard to be close to someone by yourself."
What is the sound of one hand clapping?
Tony
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
